Interview with The_Gift

• How long have you been working as an escort?
  
  I have been working for select clients off and on for about 5-6 years.
   
  
  
• When and how did you become an escort? What motivated you to start doing it? What was your background before this work?
  
  I was first hired to be personal protection for a member of a tribe from one of the local casinos. Later that employer offered to double my salary for the night; if I went as her boyfriend to a special event she was to attend, and so began my pursuit as an escort.
  Prior to this I have worked in lower management, while attending college shortly after leaving military service.
   
  
  
• Do you like being an escort? What do you enjoy most in it? What is important and have value for you in it?
  
  I do truly enjoy being an escort as I find it is here that women allow themselves the luxury a lady deserves.
  
  Above all I value the comfort and safety of my clients as if each of them was an actual girlfriend.
   
  
  
• What don't you like about being an escort?
  
  I don't like being viewed as just another guy looking for easy sex, just because there are boys out there who falsely claim to be escorts for the sole purpose of getting more action. Those boys are giving a bad image to the rest of us men trying to offer a legitimate service for ladies.
   
  
  
• What makes you notable among other providers? What exactly, you believe, you're good at? What makes your service unique? What is your favorite kind of service?
  
  I believe that what makes any good escort unique is how well they adapt to a client's needs without compromising on who they are as a person. That is a difficult balance to have in this industry; and I believe that I am able to maintain that level of service to the women who bless me with the opportunity to please them.
   
  
  
• How do you prefer a client to make an appointment? What information is important for you? Is screening required before the appointment?
  
  I prefer the initial contact to be made by email at:
  
  give_the_gift@yahoo.com
  
  requesting an appointment (either face to face in a public location, or by tele-conference) to discuss the service in detail. If they are still interested, I provide them with details on how to make a full and formal application for appointment.
   
  
  
• What types of clients you deny to meet? Are there any restrictions?
  
  Any client who's deposit/payment does not clear will be denied the appointment they requested. Any person who is under the legal age (or can not prove their age) to enter contractual agreements, and those who expect to pay for specific activities (rather than blocks of time) will also be denied an appointment.
   
  
  
• Do you have regular client assignments? How do you choose whom you wish to see on this basis?
  
  There are currently no regular client assignments. In the event that any were to develop; the choice would be based on overall booking availability as all clients are expected to meet the same qualifications to be approved for appointments.
   
  
  
• When you visit a client, what kind of environment do you expect a client to provide?
  
  I expect the environment to be such that an employer or bank manager would be welcome into. Any environment that looks like a college party house or is cluttered with laundry (clean or dirty) is unacceptable.
  
  I am providing a professional service and expect the client to provide an environment that would be appropriate for a professional meeting in the first place.
   
  
  
• Do you have any particular requirements regarding hygiene? What are the guidelines that your client should follow?
  
  I expect a client to be bathed and well groomed any time we meet. It is a sign that they have enough respect for themselves to deserve the extra attention that my service provides. It also show professional courtesy to me as a service provider.
   
  
  
• Describe your common HIV/STD prevention procedures. What kind of tests and how often do you pass? Are the test results available upon request?
  
  I have regular screenings done no less than 4x per year and am willing to provide the most recent results upon request. If a client has a specific for of protection they desire (if we become intimate) during their appointment, they are expected to provide it. This includes but is not limited to condoms and/or dental rubber/film (for receiving oral).
   
  
  
• What are your rates?
  
  All rates are in U.S. dollars.
  Currently the base rates are:
  $150.00/hr (4 hour minimum)
  $1000.00 for overnight (8-10hrs)
  $2400.00 for each 24hr block up to 6 days
  $15000.00 weekly
  
  Clients are required to cover meals, lodging, and other expenses associated with the time they reserve.
   
  
  
• Are there additional charges for "extras"? If so, what are these?
  
  The only charges for extras are for things that the the client would provide, and are not payable to myself or my office.
   
  
  
• What payment options are available? How would you prefer the client to pay?
  
  The only method of payment not accepted at this time is personal checks. All clients are given instructions for secure payment depending on their preferred method (including cash payments). There is a procedure for each that protects both the client and my service.
   
  
  
• How would you prefer the money to be given? Please describe step-by-step payment procedure. What guidelines should a client follow to make the payment convenient and risk-free for you.
  
  I prefer payment to be made through the online services of PayPal or BidPay, as both provides the client with a secure and discreet method of payment and allow for easy bookkeeping on my end.
   
  
  
• If you accept credit or debit cards, how will charges appear on a credit card statement?
  
  
  Yes both are accepted through PayPal or BidPay, and appear as online purchases based on the clients choice when submitting payment through these services.
   
  
  
• If a client decided to make you a present, what would you be happy to receive? What is your wish-list (maybe flowers, lingerie, parfume, music albums, books etc.)?
  
  I would be happy to receive any present that was given at the beginning or even during the first half of their time allotment. However, I cannot accept any gifts (or tips) during the later portions of our time together or afterwards, as these can be interpreted as payments for specific acts and would risk falling under prostitution laws.
   
  
  
• Do you travel? If so, what does that involve on the client's part?
  
  I am always willing to travel anywhere within the United States. A client wishing to arrange for travel is expected to provide in advance proof of all related accommodation. These include round-trip tickets and hotel reservations at the minimum. Transportation at the destination will need to be discussed prior to any arrangements and the agreed upon method provided by the client as well.
   
  
  
• Do you allow kisses?
  
  Yes, I do allow kissing. I believe that it adds to the overall experience. However, if the client becomes easily attached to other people; then I would suggest limiting kisses to light kisses only.
   
  
  
• If a client wants, will you engage in a role play? What kind of?
  
  Role-play is always an option, but is limited to roles that are socially healthy. For example any roles of parent to child are not acceptable because an intimate relationship of that nature is societally unhealthy.
   
  
  
• How do you handle a situation where a client may want to get "wild and crazy"?
  
  
  Any situations that would risk public shame to myself or the client are quickly brought to an end in the interest of safety and discretion for all involved. If a client insisted on continuing in such activities/behavior, then the time together would come to an end and any remaining credit would be forfeit under breach of contract.
   
  
  
• Do you allow the clients to make photos or video recordings? If yes, on what terms?
  
  Yes, I do allow both. The terms are limited to situations that will allow for positive reflection on the time together. Any situation that would cause injury to character for any person involved will not be permitted to be captured by photo, video, or audio recordings of any kind.
   
  
  
• How do you handle first-timers or those who have limited experience with escort services? What are your suggestions to such clients to make your encounter the most enjoyable?
  
  If the appointment is being made by the person who is going to be with an escort for the first time, I discuss with them their reasons for seeking my services. I try to make certain that they understand exactly how a professional escort service works and that they are certain that this is what they are looking for.
   
  
  
• Have you ever had experiences with disabled clients? How do you meet their special needs?
  
  I have not had any disabled clients as of yet. I would need to know in advance if there were additional needs to be considered and/or accommodated. These individual's needs would be evaluated and researched prior to any booking to be certain that I am able to meet their needs without specific medical training/knowledge.
   
  
  
• What are your feelings about and attitude to participating as an escort in group parties, where several escorts serve several clients?
  
  
  Such an event would fall into special booking and pricing based on the number and ratio of participants. Factors would include genders ratios of both guests and service providers, ratios of guests to service providers, whether personal security was permitted for the providers, and location.
  Ultimately I feel that these group events provide excellent opportunities for both guests and providers when the terms are arranged in advance.
   
  
  
• What is your attitude towards tobacco, alcohol and drugs? Do you drink or smoke yourself? Do you allow the client to do it during your meeting?
  
  I feel that each person is responsible for deciding what they will or will not use. I choose not to smoke, and i do drink socially.
  
  As for drugs, that is the clients personal choice and I DO NOT & WILL NOT acquire or provide any type of drugs for a client.
   
  
  
• What are the most usual types of "difficult" clients you meet? What would you like to warn them about in advance?
  
  I would say that the most difficult types are the ones who allow themselves to be intoxicated to the point where they can not be reasoned with. Any client who reaches this state of being can expect to forfeit the remaining time if they in any fashion risk safety or attempt to breach the agreement in any way.
   
  
  
• What would happen, if at some point you or the client wished to stop the proceedings? How would you handle the issue of compensation?
  
  This would be handled based on the reasons why the time was being ended early. If there were an emergency that required one of us to leave would be different than if a client violated the terms agreed upon at the time of booking the appointment.
  
  Compensation is generally not offered, as the payment was for the escorts time. Of course certain circumstances would warrant special considerations and when appropriate the client would be compensated with either a credit (for future booking) or a refund (cashiers check only).
   
  
  
• What are the things that excite you or appeal to you when on a "date"? What turns you on?
  
  The greatest appeal to me is the chance to meet new people at any number of events with each client. I find it very exciting to meet people from all over and find out what they perceive is going on in the world around them.
  
  As for what turns me on, well that varies from the purely physical to the things that turn me on by stimulating my mind.
   
  
  
• What are your sexual preferences? What kinds of activity do you enjoy most of all?
  
  I consider myself to be straight as far as sexual orientation. I am however comfortable in situations that involve another male's participation in the events with the client and would need to discuss this in advance if there were plans to include other male participants in our activities.
  I most enjoy activities in which I can see that the client is being satisfied. I find it very rewarding to know that I am providing a satisfying service to my clients.
   
  
  
• What are your turn-offs?
  
  I am turned off by people who belittle others in my presence. I find it to be a sign of immaturity and lacking of professionalism.
   
  
  
• What was your most funny sexual experience?
  
  I would have to say the most amusing experience was when a kitten kept climbing on the bed to play with the toys that were beside us, and when one of us would reach for a toy and get a kitten instead. After about the 4th time of this happening we had to stop because the laughing over it completely changed the mood.
   
  
  
• What was your most funny escorting experience?
  
  The incident with the kitten, which happened to be with a client at her home.
   
  
  
• What was your most odd or weird escorting experience?
  
  The oddest experience was being asked to spend a week with a client as a "Homeless Couple" so that she could have a chance to see what her parents went through before they had gotten married.
   
  
  
• Hypothetical situation: your best friend, or your sister, or your daughter tells you that she wants to get into escort business. Would you encourage her to do it?
  
  I would discuss with this person why they want to get into the industry and how much they know about how it works. If they decided to continue pursuing the idea, then I would offer to be there for them to help make it a safe and successful business for them.
   
  
  
• If someone wished to become an escort, how would you recommend they go about it?
  
  I would recommend that they take time to research agencies in the area to see if there was one that was reputable and also compatible with their limitations. If they wanted to be an independent escort then I would advise them to learn what was legally required to establish a business entity in their area; so that they were able to avoid unnecessary hassles from the state and federal revenue services as well.
   
  
  
• What are your hobbies and passions, things you love to do and discuss? Music genres, movies, reading preferences etc.? What other talents do you have?
  
  I find myself involved in a wide variety of hobbies that range from martial arts and scuba diving, to online gaming & skateboarding. I find that variety truly is the spice of life. I am most passionate about things that allow me to help others benefit from my knowledge and experiences, especially teenagers since they are the next group to be adults and affect where our society goes.
  
  I find that I enjoy most genres of music and movies, while my reading preferences tend to steer away from fiction writings and more toward things that are intellectually stimulating most of the time.
   
  
  
• What are your dreams, future goals and aspirations? Short and long term?
  
  I would eventually like to establish both a non-profit venture and a private business that enrich the community and state in which I live.
  I am currently working on a short term stage of building a website where teens can discuss what they would like to see in the area, and will be rejecting posts that include personal information in order to protect the youth from online predators that may target them.
   
  
  
• Anything else to add?
  
  I am currently accepting referrals (from women only) of men whom they believe might be interested in joining me in establishing a full scale Male Escort Service.
   
  
  

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