Interview with Sasha J

• How long have you been working as an escort?
  
  I have just recently in the past month became an escort.
   
  
  
• When and how did you become an escort? What motivated you to start doing it? What was your background before this work?
  
  I recently worked under management and did not find the position to be fulfilling, so I decided to become an independent provider. I am a college student, and as you know expenses add up fast, but so far, I have enjoyed my work.
   
  
  
• Do you like being an escort? What do you enjoy most in it? What is important and have value for you in it?
  
  So far, I have enjoyed my work as an escort. I enjoy the compliments I receive from my clients both before and after meetings. I have encountered many respectful, generous professionals that treat me like a queen during our meetings. These men never expected me to be anything more than a high-class companion.
   
  
  
• What don't you like about being an escort?
  
  As of now, I don't like the aspect of meeting many new clients because, though I have had a good experience so far, I have also encountered many shady characters.
   
  
  
• What makes you notable among other providers? What exactly, you believe, you're good at? What makes your service unique? What is your favorite kind of service?
  
  I believe that my high class companionship makes me notable and unique. I have gone to dinners and business events with some of my clients and I am always a respectful, elegant companion. I think I am good at making my clients feel important and also making them look good, somewhat like a trophy wife. I enjoy giving sensual and erotic massages, as well as accompanying clients to various events.
   
  
  
• How do you prefer a client to make an appointment? What information is important for you? Is screening required before the appointment?
  
  I prefer clients to book appointments through email and confirm dates over the phone. I ask that clients provide
   
  
  
• What types of clients you deny to meet? Are there any restrictions?
  
  I deny to meet shady clients that will not provide information that I ask for and clients that will not agree to a brief introduction meeting before hand since I do like to build relationships with clients so that they will return. I also deny clients that are rude, vulgar, racist, or send crude emails and/or pictures.
   
  
  
• Do you have regular client assignments? How do you choose whom you wish to see on this basis?
  
  If both parties, myself and also my client, feel that we enjoyed each others company, we will schedule more appointments.
   
  
  
• When you visit a client, what kind of environment do you expect a client to provide?
  
  I expect the client to provide a clean, discrete, upscale environment.
   
  
  
• Do you have any particular requirements regarding hygiene? What are the guidelines that your client should follow?
  
  I just believe that the client should be clean, ideally freshly showered because we are on a date.
   
  
  
• Describe your common HIV/STD prevention procedures. What kind of tests and how often do you pass? Are the test results available upon request?
  
  I have recently been tested for HIV/STD and I am negative in all areas. I will be retested in 3 months and after the next visit, I will have results available upon request as they are not currently available. If any sexual activities do occur, I always practice safe sex.
   
  
  
• What are your rates?
  
  My rates vary depending on services that you are seeking but the general amounts are as follows: 1 hour- $250, 2 hours- $400, 3 hours- $600.
   
  
  
• Are there additional charges for "extras"? If so, what are these?
  
  I do not offer extras, if any activities occur between myself and my client, compensation will be discussed then and there, if at all.
   
  
  
• What payment options are available? How would you prefer the client to pay?
  
  I expect the payment upfront in cash, in an unsealed envelope. If you enjoy my companionship, I also expect a tip.
   
  
  
• How would you prefer the money to be given? Please describe step-by-step payment procedure. What guidelines should a client follow to make the payment convenient and risk-free for you.
  
  Please place the payment in an unsealed envelope. Either hand me the envelope, or place it in a visible location. I will not request it as I will expect it to be there. I will discretely inspect it before we begin our date.
   
  
  
• If a client decided to make you a present, what would you be happy to receive? What is your wish-list (maybe flowers, lingerie, parfume, music albums, books etc.)?
  
  I enjoy all thoughtful gifts that clients present to me. My favorite flowers are pink 'Majolika' roses and orange 'Femma' roses and my favorite perfume is Princess by Vera Wang. Lingerie is a great present that I would not mind modeling for my client during a private meeting. One of the best gifts is a gift card. Here is a list of stores that I frequently shop at: Macy's, Abercrombie, Victoria Secret's, Target, Coach, and Frederick's of Hollywood.
   
  
  
• Do you travel? If so, what does that involve on the client's part?
  
  I do travel. If the travel is within the greater bay area, I will incur the costs. If the client would like me to travel outside of the bay area, I would expect compensation. I also expect advanced notice for travel.
   
  
  
• Do you allow kisses?
  
  Yes (not french kisses)
   
  
  
• If a client wants, will you engage in a role play? What kind of?
  
  I will engage in role-play that has to do with costumes:
  Teacher and Student
  Secretary and Executive
  Executive and Mail-boy
  (I do not participate in hurtful or demeaning role play like slaveplay)
   
  
  
• How do you handle a situation where a client may want to get "wild and crazy"?
  
  
  I expect that a client tells me in the introduction what kind of partner they are. If they expect to get "wild and crazy" they should be upfront, if I say no, they should be respectful.
   
  
  
• Do you allow the clients to make photos or video recordings? If yes, on what terms?
  
  I allow clients to take photos at an extra cost. I do not sign a model release form, so I expect that the photos are for my clients on personal use only and will not be shown to any other parties. I do not allow video recording.
   
  
  
• How do you handle first-timers or those who have limited experience with escort services? What are your suggestions to such clients to make your encounter the most enjoyable?
  
  As I am also new to the escort world, I understand the anxiety that my new clients are experiencing. I try to make clients fell as comfortable as possible and make our meeting as far from business oriented as possible. Even though I do expect clients to be respectful and discrete, I am a very down-to-earth girl and enjoy making others happy, so I try to go the extra mile to make sure my clients are comfortable.
   
  
  
• Have you ever had experiences with disabled clients? How do you meet their special needs?
  
  I have not had an experience with a disabled client, but I would be just as sensitive as I would be with any other client.
   
  
  
• What are your feelings about and attitude to participating as an escort in group parties, where several escorts serve several clients?
  
  
  I have no problem being an escort in a group party. I have never done it before, but I am open to the idea.
   
  
  
• What is your attitude towards tobacco, alcohol and drugs? Do you drink or smoke yourself? Do you allow the client to do it during your meeting?
  
  Personal, I do not smoke, I am a social drinker, and do enjoy 420 from time to time. I would prefer that a client would not take drugs or smoke in my presence, but I do not mind drinking.
   
  
  
• What would happen, if at some point you or the client wished to stop the proceedings? How would you handle the issue of compensation?
  
  If the client wanted to stop the proceedings, I would expect full compensation. If I stopped the proceedings due to a breech in regulations I have already explained, I expect full compensation. If I stop the proceedings on account of a personal problem, I do not expect compensation.
   
  
  
• What are the things that excite you or appeal to you when on a "date"? What turns you on?
  
  I enjoy men that know how to hold a conversation. I am turned on by men that tastefully compliment me and that are turned on by my curves and age.
   
  
  
• What are your sexual preferences? What kinds of activity do you enjoy most of all?
  
  I enjoy high-energy sex & switching positions often.
   
  
  
• What are your turn-offs?
  
  I hate men that smell bad (please shower and brush your teeth). I am also turned off when men rush into sex.
   
  
  
• What was your most funny sexual experience?
  
  I would have to say the funniest sexual experience I have had was the first time I had a quiff experience because I laughed out of embarrassment because I didn't know what was happening.
   
  
  
• What was your most funny escorting experience?
  
  I really haven't had a funny escorting experience... yet.
   
  
  
• What was your most odd or weird escorting experience?
  
  A client tried get a discount by trying to give me oral, even though I told him no.
   
  
  
• Hypothetical situation: your best friend, or your sister, or your daughter tells you that she wants to get into escort business. Would you encourage her to do it?
  
  I don't believe that escorting is a career, or a business that anyone should aspire to be in. If you do find yourself in the escorting business though, you should do your best.
   
  
  
• If someone wished to become an escort, how would you recommend they go about it?
  
  If the person is not comfortable being independent, is not articulate, or does not know how to carry his-/herself properly, I would advise them to begin under an escort service to learn more about the business.
   
  
  
• What are your hobbies and passions, things you love to do and discuss? Music genres, movies, reading preferences etc.? What other talents do you have?
  
  I was a dance student and on the dance team at my high school for all four years. It has always been one of my passions even though lately I have been terribly busy and have had less time to pursue it. I enjoy discussing more controversial topics because I enjoy learning about viewpoints other than my own.
   
  
  
• What are your dreams, future goals and aspirations? Short and long term?
  
  My main short term goal is to get out of debt so I can begin focusing directly on school. My main long term goal is to graduate from graduate school.
   
  
  

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