Basic Protocols and Social Graces

Protocol in general term means, Rule, Ethiquette and Norms. Though this is mostly used in high-level positions and elite circles, generally it could be applied to any circle.

In the escorts Industry, it is nice to adopt and practice some basic protocols for the escort providers and the client-hobbyist including basic social graces, which could further enhance the whole industry. And this should be advocated to both the escort providers and the client-hobbyist to practice. Here are some Tips:

1. Be Polite and Courteous at All Times

During the preparatory communications, meet ups until the discreet meeting, it it nice to always maintain Politeness and Courtesy to our partner. For showing such is tantamount to giving respect to the person. And respect is what we are clamoring to be accorded to us actors or involved in this enterprise. Definitely, trash talks, dispaly of annoying personality or any undesirable acts has no place in this aspect.


2. Be Flexible and Understanding

Both should be honest enough to lay down their real cards and be flexible to expand their understanding to the fullest in order to have a better result of the encounter. Considering that tne escort and hobbyist came from different community, country or region with different societal status, creed, political and social views.
Applying rigid personality here does not help most likely for the good of the enterprise.

3. Know the Details of the Terms and Conditions

Clarity is the best! In here, escorts should lay down all the do's and hard don'ts, the limitations, the rates including the extras and, special arrangements (if any) using common language before the deal is sealed. Hobbyist too should know all this things and be sure they are at the same plane or level of understanding with the escort. Sometimes, the usual thing we do is to assume that our partner understood all the terms the same way we do, but this is a potential source of trouble later on.


4. Pre-screen your Partner

It is really very important to pre-screen your patner before the deal, appllicable to both the escort and the client. Not only for general safety but also for cheats, unsatisfactory service or worst, scams of any form. Could hardly imagine a client or escort, excitingly waiting his/her scheduled time of pleasure but only to be denied or shortchanged with his/her expectation or excitement due to the partner choice who is not pre-screened. There have been so many good opinions and discussions on this particular issue in this forum, so no need to elaborate.


5. Be Responsible

Be responsible at all times during the meet ups, the main discreet meeting and even after, to comply with your commitments. Commitments may include; time of meeting, terms and conditions, as well as social and material obligations. We should be responsible enough to know and do what is good or best for both and avoid the bad or undesirable to both. Violence, cheating, impositions of personal whims, to name a few can not be ragarded as acts of a responsible person.

Likewise, after the discreet meeting we should be responsible and be fair enough of what we say or write in our reviews if we desire to do so. We should consider also whatever inconvenience that may occur to our partner, unless the situation really demand so.


BASIC SOCIAL GRACES


1. Always Give Pleasant Greetings

Do this either on phone calls, emails and especially personal meetings. For personal meetings, the most common appropriate gesture is shake hands with matching kind words like; How do you do? How was your trip coming here? Nice meeting you! With matching sweet smiles or using all the charm you've got.

2. Give Compliments

You may give material presents (if any) or give kind complimentary words like; "You look Great" for second meetings, "It seems you improved a lot this time" (even not exactly it is) or anything that you think provides comfort (not discomfort)to your partner.


3. For Males, Be Gentleman when Needed

Open the door for your lady, Show her the way or direction you want her to go, offer the best seat for her or any little things that could generate good impression from her. Remember, "First Impression is Lasting" so the saying goes! However, you may disregard gentleness during the actual adult activity, for it will no longer be needed or necessary. For sure, both party crave for intense and probably animal-like behavior, especially nearing and until climax of the sexual activity.

4. Provide Good Conversation

There should be no dull moments with your partner before the deed and after the deed. Good conversation would open the gates for comfort and closeness to each other. Find common subject for you, like for example this site, the issues discussed in the forums or anything. Or you can start by giving praises for the performance during the deed (though not exactly it was). Hey, I'm not promoting lies or hypocrisy here but just sharing the practices required in the world of "Social Graces". It is up to you if you want to.

5. Give A Good Parting Words

Think of any excellent words with action for your partner that would be remembered by him/her so that he/she could be easily influenced to come back to you later. For escorts, example; Really enjoyed your company..thank you for this, when will we meet again? I'm longing for another meeting between us! For clients, they will always say, yah definitely I'll see you again (even if it is not true in reality). Then a hug and kiss naturally follows. But these parting words and actions somehow, will be remembered by both parties and it is up to them how they really value such parting words. Nobody could tell and feel their commitments except the two of them.

Guys, I believe my sharing is not complete. You may want to add, modify, subtract or disagree. It is fine with me. I just based my recommendations based on my personal assessment of the needs of the enterprise, reflective of my personality. This is a nice forum where we can always share our sane ideas though not thinking it is perfect or the best. Comments, reactions and constructive criticisms are welcomed, especially when done in an appropriate way. Come on, share your ideas and experiences! Thank you.

This is really a good topic dohm. It is very basic but one that needs constant reiteration from time to time. These things don't only apply to the escort industry but are really handy in social endeavours of all kinds.

We have to keep in mind that this is still service that we are providing. Now what separates a good service provider from a great one is the after-sales support (that is if and only if circumstances will permit)... what i'm trying to say is that, escorts must not forget to thank a client for a great time if there's a chance to do so. Equally, what better way to show an escort appreciation (that is aside from material gifts, tips :) and simple thank-you's) would be by writing a good review, very much like a "thank you card" that we get after attending a party. And oh, word of mouth advertisement as in referrals is great too.

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A very good post ... This is what I call a relaxed passage .. ill follow these things and implement it like hitler LOL:)

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Thank you Luli for signing in to the principles embodied in the article. When I wrote that, I'm thinking of an advocacy of good practices right here in this forum relative to our hobby on women on this site, as I do so in other areas or local papers where I write.

We are enjoying here with our hobby on women and our opinions in this forum! Both satisfies our hobby of course!

You all sound like perfect gentlemen already :)

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An escort can downgrade to be a whore, but a whore cannot upgrade to be an escort. Here I see two categories, - callgirls and escorts.

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