Forum - Shocked by reference request...

I cant believe the number of potential clients that are *shocked* that I am requesting references from REPUTABLE providers, or that I am asking for a significant amount of personal information if they cant cough up the references. I understand that there are newbies, and even I myself am new to the area although not to the biz...but why all the resistance? I hate turning down dates but REFUSE to not screen. Seems to be a lull in things lately anyways so it makes it even more of a waste. When a reputable provider screens a client should feel a little more secure...cause crack hos and LE dont care who they service!


OK I will now climb off my soap box. Play hard and stay safe!

I can't answer the why JJ - to me its a signal that they are not serious, that is its very unlikely that they would have booked anyway. If you talked to them long enough, they would find some excuse to back out. Often they will end up saying "I will call back", and of course they never do.

My guess is that these guys are calling around for the "lowest rates" or on a whim. So they are not prepared to book at the time of the call and therefore want to remain anonymous. This happens even if you have a website and online ad which posts your rates. These kind of guys don't read.

I guess not so many guys can provide real references to the escorts.
But I understand their fear of giving personal info. it is not so easy for many of us though in fact you both are right.

JJ amd dominixe,
I'll give you copies of my Drivers License, Birth Certificate, Passport and any other id you want. I'll even give you my old Army serial number, that's before they used your SSN's.
I'll even send you a copy of my finger prints and get a DNA sample at a hospital for you.

Paul, why you are so eager? They are not Ladies In Black :)))

I know that, it's just that ever since I joined this site I have been searching for ladies willing to join me in my out door adventures. These two ladies are willing to do them so, what ever they need I'll give them.

I could probaly change the title of my Bolg to: Finally found 2.

And what about the originals? Is it practiced anywhere you live or travel?

Safety should always come first I do screening everytime and I would rather turn down some then take a chance on something bad happening.
Yes it hurts to turn some down but sometimes it makes them want you even more so tell them to find a provider willing to give them a try then have him get back to you so you can verify him.

No, it is not practiced where I live or travel. With all the information that are on those documents and ID cold be stolen. What I am saying, is that I would bring those documents with me for the lady to inspect.

Presently, I do bring my Driver's License, Passport and my VA ID card, my old state ID card, which was issued by the FBI and an old business card. I shall soon be in posession of a Military ID card for 100% Service Connected Disabled Vets and will bring that along as well.
What ever a lady needs to screen me, I will gladyl provide the information.

What an exotic method!!!
And do they really begin to seek verification girls? :)

References should be a given...but I guessa lot of guys want this to be as private as possible and dont understand our need to stay safe. sheesh...