Forum - Double Standard?

This is more of a rant but I just wanted to see how many others have ran into this issue.

A guy calls you sets a appt. Then you get showered nice and clean put your make up on curl your hair pick out a nice outfit and look your best.
You get to the appt and the guy looks nice but hasn't showered has odor and a bad fragrance drifting from down there. Come on what if I showed up no make up hair flat no shower and said put your face down here you wouldn't like it very much.
Guys take pride in yourself shower first then call a girl nothing turns a girl off more than the smell of dirty butt.
Most guys do take the time to shower just makes for a pleasurable experience.

Good point. Think you should post this in the hobbist section too.


One of my screening techniques for newcomers is to meet in a public place first. If I sensed bad hygene then, I probably wouldn't meet the guy. If he's that disrespectful or unaware of himself, he ain't gonna be much fun.

If I went to the place, I'd ask him to take a shower first and if he didn't, I'd leave. I could offer to dry him off to make the shower idea more appealing IF I was feeling generous.

If you have a website, you may want to put on there that you'd like your clients to be showered and clean. Which reminds me, gotta add that to mine too.

Take care,
Leslie Layne

Ladies, I don't mean to be rude but, you might put in your ads and profiles that for a man to book an appoinment with you he must rembember the 3 S's. Any man knows what that stands for.
I know that I, probably, spend as much time as you getting ready to meet you as you do for me, except for the make up.
In the Army we would throw men in the shower and make them take a bath if they weren't in the habbit. I wouldn't and don't enjoy being around someone who isn't clean. Male or female.
I know in a lot of cultures, around the world, bathing isn't a top priority but, it is changing.

I think that is most important!

Any person who is not clean, smells etc is simply dirty! How can you become intimate, develop a passionate time if already appearance or/and smell turns you off.

Men, ladies do clean yourself!

Nice expression, sounds like a slogan!)

Paul is right.

Paul do you mean your army mates who were sleazy or you mean your captives???

I meant Army mates who were sleazy. When you share a dormatory with 40 men, one man can make it hell for all of the rest.
We would throw him in the shower, with a bar of soap and stand there until he showered himself so he did not smell. We did not torture captives. The South Vietnamesse and North Vietnamese Armies did that.

And how did they do this? I also read something about the tortures in Iraq (from the BOTH sides). Are those awful reports really true?

The North Vietnamese Army would shoot down Medi-vav helio copters and drag out the survivors and excute them in front of us. Of course they had us pinned down with .51 cal heavy maching gun fire, rpgs and bpms (something like the German anti tank weapon). They would also mutlitate bodies of dead soldiers and leave them for us to find.

The South Vietnamese would use water tortute, the type that has been used in Iraq.

It is very hard not to retaliate when you see the bodies of your friends beheaded and mulitated, beyond reccogniniton. War is psychhological as much as it is physical. It escalates beyond control and should be stopped completely. That is what the Geneva Convention was created for but, it is ignored.

Sleep deprevation and noise are a common use of torture.

The things you describe are like nightmares... That slow war in Iraq does not seem to finish at all and Iran is also in danger, at least seems to be! No one can quess how glad i will be when this goddamned process will stop :(

A la querre comme a la guerre, says the French proverb.
And I cannot help adding to it - Mais le pays est mieux, quoi qu'il en soit (But peace is better anyway).

I can not read French but I get the general meaning. I'll post an article in the news section that should awaken a few people about the stuff that people do to one another in anger and revenge.

I am sure it must be an interesting article.