Forum - Escort Etiquette

I found this awesome page full of good info for hobbyists...a guy from back home developed it on his site. It is full of great guidelines for everyone but especially a beginner that may not know why he isnt getting any emails back.

Just thought it would make potential clients more comfortable to know this info, therefor generating some more business my way! I hate turning men away because they ask silly questions that are potential warning signs for me to stay away even though 9 times out of 10 they arent LE.

Enjoy!

JJ

http://hotspeedos.com/escort_etiquette.htm

Good advise! Thanks!

I'd like to post it as a separate thread. Wouldn't you mind, Admin?...)

+1

As far as I see, it's already separate... I can't get what you mean...

Mean it is good to qoute the text of this cool article... oh sorry, it must be a copyright infringement...Sorry!

I have been doing a lot of these things without even realizing it was part of the etiquette.

I always take my own items that might be needed because I was not sure if the lady I was going to see would have them. As I have said before, I was an Eagle Scout. Their moto is "Be Prepared."

I always give the lady as much information as I feel comfortabe giving. But, since I usually see ladies from this site I can refer them to my profile and they can learn a lot about me.

I always place the fees is an open envelope, on a desk along with my driver's license and passport. I also have my I.D. from the Veteran's Affairs, a federal I.D. and my old State employee I.D. I want the lady to know who I am and not have to worry about her safety as I do not want to have to worry about mine.

The first time I met "Cora" I asked her if she would like to call some one and tell them where we were. She replied, "Some one had already called to check on her." Didn't bother me the least, in fact, I was happy to hear that some one had been checking. It works for both the escort and the client.

I just wish that there were more men as considerate as you are, Paul. In this business we have to deal with many rude and demanding men, from all backgrounds. So guys like you make our day. Thanks, its very much appreciated.


This is so important for us whenever we have a "first encounter". Before meeting I ask for a name and a verifiable telephone number and location (often its a hotel). How do you think we feel when:

1. Someone won't give us his name
2. His telephone number is unlisted or does not match the directory listing
3. We don't have enough info to call through the hotel switchboard
4. He does not answer or we get voicemail when we call back to confirm

In the past I have regretted taking a chance and going out on an unconfirmed call (against my better instincts). Even I can be fooled because men who do this can be convincing liars.

Thank you,Dominixe,

When I travel to see a lady I, usually, use one of the travel web sites so I always send a copy of my itineary to the lady I am going to see. I want her to know where I will be staying and where we will be meeting.

I usually arrive one day before our meeting due to the unrealiability of air travel, and this gives her a chance to confirm all the information I have sent her.

I don't believe this is an unnecessary request, I do it for any one I am going to visit, family, friends or business. It's part of the way the world works, today.

I read a lady's posts, profiles, blogs and web sites. I would expect her to do the same research to check me out, as well. When I give you my phone number, it is my home phone number and it is listed in the directory.

I had a distant cousin contact me and she told me she found me by searching the web. So, I'm listed some where on the web as well.

Be safe and take care.

I think both Dominixe and Paul are right and have good reasons.

Nice advises.
Shake your hand once again, Paul

dominixe~~

i cant agree with you more. most of the time a potential client probably isnt LE, but when you act like you have something to hide it sends up all kinds of red flags. the client may wonder why you are giving out all this personal information...well the provider may wonder what is waiting for her if someone cant even provide a phone number.

this can be a truly enjoyable hobby for all...but it can also be risky when you dont know who you are dealing with. the hobbyist needs to take their anxiety and multiply it x10...thats what your provider is feeling when things dont seem "right."

~~JJ

This list is awesome. Some of it is admittedly common sense to me, but there are some great tips to keep in mind there. This should be required for agencies, escorts, and clients to keep all on the same page. One that I should've known, but didn't, was the one where the client makes the first physical contact. It makes perfect sense, but I never saw it consciously.

1 question please.
If I should provide all available information for me to an escort like ID, phone number etc. , how can I know that they won't be used for not right purpose?