Forum - Time Wasters

How do you handle all the people contacting you here in this site or others, asking for more pics, details again and again - sometimes even info already in the ad but finally there is no booking. How do you handle this? Any comment on this topic and advise?

Hey,

It can be pretty disappointing to get constant emails and inquires and then no appointment. Just be patient you will get the clients and business you are looking for. Just keep your answers short and sweet. Let me give you an example:

A few days ago a guy sent me an instant message. He asked me if I was into as specific fetish and how much would it cost etc. He asked me like twice. I simply told him that I had to see him at least once before I could disclose any further information about special services or donations. I then directed him to visit my website for information and to make an appointment. I was very polite and sweet about it. He thanked me for the information and told me that he would get back to me when he was ready to meet.
Now, sometimes guys aren't that nice. They can be nasty or rude. Simply cut them off and block their e-mails. I would also suggest not making your number public to just anyone. Give your number to serious clients only. That will cut down on the harrassing phone calls. Make a list of men that you wish not to be contacted by. That way when they contact you, you will already know not to speak with them or make an appointment.
Any guy who is nasty or persists in asking sexually explicit or ridiculous questions, is simply not worth meeting. If you are a respectable lady, then you will only want to be with respectable and courteous man. Remember it is Quality not Quantity that you should seek out. It is better to have a few good men then trying to take on the whole football team!!!!

Live! Laugh! Love!
Leyla

I keep a list of time wasters email and share with my friends in the industry.
Also look out for funny email addresses, especially those which are free to set up. Refer interested parties to your website and phone number where all information is displayed. If they keep emailing with same or millions of new questions just ignore them and block their email addresses.

In general your comment to keep a list of time wasters is fine. However, in reality I think this does not work well or only for some kind of customers or countries.

In an area or country in where you have many people travelling, passing through this might not work! As we all know, many people travelling for business might contact us. To keep this details is a waste as they usually travel not on frequent basis to the same location.

Best would be a combination of keeping a list for time wasters but also to have the possibility, eg, on this site to make a profile review even if not met. This way it would be possible to say how much of corespondence the person did with the escort and why no meeting happened. Such possibility might stop people to only collect pictures, and to have nice sexy e mails just for their pure and only entertainment.

Just a thought....

I agree with Leyla, however after a while I have to let them know that my time is valuble. I don't give out face pics so alot of times guys ask for them I usually say something cute like "I want you to be pleasantly suprised when you meet me!". There are guys out there just trolling for new faces to add to their "Spank Bank" and they're never going to make an appointment! After a little time you can tell the difference

I hate the ones that call and want me to um'........ Help them find themselves over the phone. They have another # for that 800 sexchat!

<I don't give out face pics so alot of times guys ask for them I usually say something cute like "I want you to be pleasantly suprised when you meet me!".>
Real Angel! i wish much more escorts to be like you

i cant stand that when they just ask plenty of questions that are not all important, asking for photos, but i dont mind explaining to them how toget wha they want.