Forum - Collecting the donation

Or you can simply have your own envelope out as well. This is a great way to Make sure there are not mix ups.

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I had the same thing happen to me too. Only mine was a repeat client and cute taboot! Called him right after he left and, like yours, he apologized. I just told him to bring it with him next time because I seriously thought it was just an oversight. Needless to say, I haven't seen him since. Bums me out cause he was a really sweet guy. Maybe it was on purpose or maybe he's just too embarrassed. Who knows.

I leave an empty white envelope on my dresser as a hint. If it looks like they are "forgetting" I may draw attention to it.

Most clients use the restroom after our time together and I take that opportunity to quickly check to see that all is there. Fortunately it has been. Come to think of it, I'm not sure how I'd subtly get it from them if it weren't. Any ideas?

Leslie

Well,

See I am pretty sure most companions have experienced some type of issue like this at one time or another. I never thought about the fact the guy may just be embarressed. But I can't stand fooling around like that. I take the time to clearly outline all of my policies and donation amounts. It is as clear as day. So I don't really see any excuse for them being short, unless they simply are doing it on purpose.

When I orginally started, I had the guys leave their envelope on the bathroom sink. I still advertise that way, but some just leave it on the dressor or table which is fine. When they left it in the bathroom, I would excuse myself to freshen up after a few minutes and count it. But I would not take it out the envelope just in case. But then like you said, they would use the bathroom and I became too paranoid that they would slip the money back in their pockets while in the bathroom and run off. So Its crazy. Now I also advertise that the donation needs to be settled within 15 minutes or I will end the date promptly. Its as simple as that. But I guess I just need to be more selective and be sure to count the money before they leave. Because there is no garauntee that you will see them again. hmmm

Any other suggestions ladies???????

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Leyla

Those are good ideas about the bathroom and settling matters within 15 minutes. The trick however is doing so without discussing money matters. As for me, I'd be too afraid that this would be an LE trap that the minute I mentioned moula, he'd entrap me. Maybe I'm too cautious. I dunno.

Anyway, good luck collecting.

Take care,
Leslie