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Hey I looked at your site, is it the close up face ones which are new, lying on the bed? They are stunning Kitty! You look like an angel in those pics. Put them up here for the site to see! x

OK, I seemed to have opened a can of worms here. First of all, this is totally my writing and concept. My writing style has been honed over the years by my profession. If it is similar to another's, I can only pled coincidence.

This based on my own experience over six years, plus conversations with other hobbyists. Since i am an American, and those i have talked to, are Americans, there is an American culteral biais built in. Other cultues may, and probably do, very. It was meant as constructive criticism and to generate constructive conversation.

Let's face it, this is a business. Repeat business and being a well respected lady, get you more money! You set a price, and they come or cum as the case may be. When you set your rate, there are three things, one of which you can easily change, that influence that rate:

1. Location - Some cities such as New York City and Las Vegas have a higher rate structure. Unless you move, you cannot change the rate structure of your location.

2. Looks - Oh, you can pretty yourself up, but basically what you've got to work with is what you've got. If you thinking of a boob job, my best guess is that there are more men turned off by fake boobs then men who prefer large boobs. I really doubt that you will recoup the cost of the surgery in rate increases. I for one am a small boob man, and I know I am not alone.

3. Reputation - This you can change! There are a number of things that enter into your reputation. The main one is reviews on this and other sites. Your supportive sister escorts can help you with much of this, and the business as well. What I am going to list are the reputation killers and things that do not work from a male perspective.

Killers

1. You charge for an hour, give the guy an hour. If he pops in 20 minutes, keep at it. He is paying by the hour, not by the pop. No matter how good you did, if he is time shorted, he leaves feeling cheated. You won't see him again, and his review may be less than flattering.

2. You are the mistress of what you do, but there are some things that virtually all guys want and expect. Leave one or more out, and you will diminish your clientele. Kissing, CIM, DATY, and protected sex are the main items. Yes, a number of women only offer covered oral. That is their right, but they do have fewer inquiries because of the limitation.

3. When you two come up for air, let him do much of the talking. He really does not want to hear your life story. Now if he is a long term customer, than you both share more. A provider who cannot stop talking has a lot of one timers.

4. Wearing a lot of perfume, may leave a lingering odor on your client that he does not want smelt by others.

5. Interruptions in sex are not a good thing. Have the condoms where you can get them very quickly. I had one lady tell me to go across the room and they were in the top drawer of her dresser in the silver box! Odd, I haven't seen her again!

6. After he cums, clean him up with a nice warm, moist washcloth as that makes his experience far better. He is special. Baby wipes do not make a man feel special! One hint from a ladies incall. She had a crock pot set to low in her bathroom with moist, warm washcloths. She just went in and pulled one out and was back in a flash. If you are traveling, bring extra washcloths!

7. Doing the deed to a script. If each session with a guy is the same, he will get bored. Even with different guys, if all the reviews read the same, guys can figure out that you are just acting. Vary the script, and even when acting, most guys are oblivious.

8. If he asks you to wear something specific, try to honor that request. I for one do not like thong panties. I often say, wear what you like, just not thong panties, and about a quarter of the time they are wearing thong panties. Yeah, I'm really special to her. In the first 10 minutes she has told me she could care less about my desires. Just drop the envelope on the table!

Things that do not work

1. Putting your dress size on your web site. Yeah, like a man knows the difference from a size 8 and a size 12! If he can't get an idea of your body size and shape, get better pictures taken.

2. Women generally do not like men sending them cock photos. Well men reviewing perspective ladies online, don't really want to see her sucking someone else's cock. Since you are an escort, he pretty well concludes that you suck cock.

3. At least ten percent of the time when I go to a ladies site, it does not tell me what city she works out of. Hello!

4. Contacting is important. Don't make the contact method so difficult that the guy gives up. Text only - Hey, I for one do not text. I am about to give up on a lady because she wants to get to know me first, but only by Yahoo Massager! Give the poor guy some options.

I will conclude with an item that I struggle with. I have already stated that CIM wins you more clients. Now, the age old question: to spit or swallow? That is your choice and there are many reasons for your choice, and I, as a customer, try to honor them. Nonetheless, when she goes into the bathroom to spit, even when returning with a nice warm washcloth, I cannot help a little feeling of rejection. Again, your choice, just be aware of the signal you are sending. Not a killer, not a thing that doesn't work, just a item of which you need to be aware.

My goal is not to tell you ladies what to do, other than make my day. Rather it is to help you make my day!