Ive always been proud to call myself a New Zealand Woman, now I know why - Kiwi women are the most promiscuous in the world! (Google Promiscuous New Zealand). An extraordinary accolade which gets even better: "NZ was also unusual for being the only country where women have more sexual partners than the men."
Promiscuous. This one of my favourite words. It conjures images of wanton sexy, alot of naughty, a little rebellion and generous helpings of intrigue....all in the colour purple. Promiscuous, a term I have adopted as completely as I have "anal retentive". It didnt happen overnight. Both have required adjustment and the time to find a contented place in my head; adaption of the various connotations to suit myself, as is my prerogative. Ive never viewed either as negative, on the contrary (anal retentive has been problematic) but, having an opinion quietly tucked away in 'safe place' and being comfortable wearing it on a number plate are two different stories. Nowadays Id triumphantly get both if I had enough cars - can you get a number plate without a car to put it on?
I embraced promiscuous because I am, have always been, though I must argue with one dictionary reference which suggests Im "Lacking standards of selection and indiscriminate." Admittedly my teens left me with a few horror memories but an eternity has passed since then. My promiscuity has never manifested discontent within my monogamous relationships, nor has it adversely affected my relationships as an adult. For me, to effectively negotiate the art of "casual sexual relations frequently with different partners" (another dictionary description) requires maturity, confidence and honesty. My relationships, whatever form they take, are always with parties fully understanding who I am and what I offer. Even my staunch stance on "only one at a time" has gone out the window as Ive learnt more about myself and to trust others to make the right decisions for themselves. They are their own responsibility once Ive laid my cards out.
Memoirs of a Promiscuous Good Girl. Need I say more?
Yes it does but the average Kiwi bloke still seems to find cause for complaint :). Fortunately I now have statistical evidence to remind them how lucky they are!
I'm trying to imagine kiwi women jumping on a poor man like a pride of lionesses on an antelope! New Zealand seems to be a real "paradise for shy guys")))))
Posted on: 10/16/07 14:03
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