Seduce and meet any Woman
SEDUCE AND MEET ANY WOMAN…THE GUIDE TO SUCCESS.
Seduce Women
We call it The Art of Seduction because seducing a woman is an art. Like playing an instrument to produce beautiful music, you are seducing the woman to bring out emotions in her and to encourage her to fall for you.
You can take a scattershot approach to the art of seduction, or you can study it like any other art and then apply your techniques for consistent and better results. Here is how to be a master in the art of seduction:
1. Make her feel things
Normal routine conversation with acquaintances or casual friends does not make anyone feel anything. Most approaches that men unskilled in the art of seduction make are along the lines of “you are pretty, what’s you name? Can I buy you a drink?” After that the conversation doesn’t normally progress much.
Over a long period of time, you might get somewhere with this approach, but it will be inconsistent and not at all powerful. To create a quick and powerful connection you need to make the woman feel something. There are two ways to do this:
• Ask questions that bring out old memories that have strong emotions attached: questions about first loves, childhood, and her best friends and family.
• Find out about things that she feels very passionate about.
2. Connect with her on those feelings
When she is talking about things she feels emotion for, do not make the mistakes of saying “me too”, talking about yourself, or asking lots of closed questions. The process is to connect with her on the feeling and then ask another open question. To connect with her, imagine what it would be like to be in her position and feed it back to her.
So after she talked about the first time she was in the love, a master in the art of seduction might say: “So you met him and you were so in love that you could just look into his eyes all day long, you must miss that innocent simple love, it’s a shame when things get complicated and you have to second-guess yourself and analyze things, do you think you will find that kind of love again with the right guy?”
3. Be Seductive
The above allow you to make an amazing connection with the girl, but unless you have a sexual element, she might still consider you as someone she likes to talk to and be friends with.
You don’t learn the art of seduction to have more friends, so what you need to do next is establish a sexual undertone. You need to slowly shift into a seductive frame and she will follow and start to feel those things too.
Hold eye contact, touch her in increasingly more seductive ways, slow your voice tone, change the way you look at her – if you want her, don’t hide it, and let it show. Create some sexual tension and she will start to feel it too. This is very powerful, the only caveat is to do this once you already have some kind of connection and not do it too early.
This is what Players do, they are experts in understanding what a woman wants, which is the essence of the art of seduction. The above things will create moments that she has only ever dreamed of and will make you into the man she has been waiting for all her life.
The Cube
The cube is one routine which is not only very powerful, but also accurate in terms of what it can tell you about the woman. Personally, I ( Michael) prefer a natural approach without tricks and routines but know that everyone I know who us The Cube get good results from it.
The Cube is a game that, using the aid of symbology and emotive questions to elicit answers, allows you to lead a woman during the seduction process.
It is used as a playful game to build attraction (by teasing a girl’s answers, exaggerating, and making your interpretations funny) or to lead a woman’s mind towards her deepest sexual desires by making your interpretations sexual and erotic.
Most commonly, however, the Cube is used to build trust and comfort with a woman as it serves to build a connection with a woman you might have only just met by seeming playful but leading her to a more emotional state where she feels more in tune with herself whilst building rapport with you.
The Design of the Cube
You can structure the Cube to suit you but below is the general outline:
“Have you ever done the Cube? Well, I will ask you some questions, and when I am done, I will know everything about you. Are you ready? Do you have a good imagination? Good” (The idea here is not to explain it, but just to get her hooked) “
Now, imagine in front of you a landscape. In addition, in the landscape there is a Cube. Notice what size is it. What color is it? What is it made of? Where is it?
“Next you see a ladder. Where is it in relation to the cube? What is it made of? What size is it?“
Next there are flowers. Where are they? How many? What do they look like? What color are they?
“Next, there is a horse. What does it look like? Where is it? What is it doing?“
Lastly, there is a storm. Where is it? What is it doing? What does it look like?”
When she has visualized the entire scenario, then you can tell her the meanings:
Cube = Yourself
Ladder = Your aspirations
Flowers = Your friends
Horse = Your ideal lover
Storm = Your challenges and problems
Some people may also use different meanings to associate with the Cube, the ladder, the flowers, the horse or the storm and that is acceptable.
However, you want to talk about things that will invoke the proper emotions in her, so avoid talking about things that do not relate to her or things that invoke negativity.
Unraveling the Cube
You need not memorize exact responses for every possible answer.
Instead, you may use vague explanations and generalities.
Taking about women in general will still have a powerful effect because it will convey that you understand people, women and her.
Example: You’re cube is the person. You are a very sensitive person. Probably you are a very good judge of character and you can tune into those times when people just want something from you. While other times you can really feel when a person is being sincere with you.
This works because it serves to describe any socially aware woman.
Ask clarifying questions. Ask her, and she might tell you exactly what something means, doing your job for you. Ask her how she feels about the objects, or ask how they relate to each other.
Example:
Her: “My horse is leaning against the Cube”
You: “Really? Why is it leaning against the Cube?”
Her: “Well, it’s just not strong enough”
You: “Oh, I understand. It seems like the men in your life haven’t been strong enough. You need a strong, passionate and powerful man (whilst maintaining unbroken eye contact)
When you find aspects of the interpretation that really fit her, go into greater detail. Tell stories from your life that relate to her, or give her examples of how she might experience it in her life.
Example:
“You are a very creative person, but you’re not at a point in your life right now where you are really using your creative abilities. It reminds me of how I felt a couple of years ago. I was working in this job that didn’t allow me to express my personality…”
Use things that you can easily infer about her without having to ask. If she is the quiet one of a 2 set, concentrate on how relaxed a person she is and how she is a stabilizing factor for friends in times of crisis etc.
Powers of the Cube
The Cube serves the following purposes during your interaction with a woman:
Avoid boredom
The Cube offers a unique conversational piece that moves away from facts and information into fantasy and more emotional talking points so allowing a woman the chance to talk about things she finds more meaningful and important.
Hook her
Women love these kinds of games. The Cube will hook her into your conversation and even be used as an excuse to isolate your target: “Hey, come with me, I want to show you something cool…”
Demonstrate value and personality
You will demonstrate value to a girl when using the Cube because you are a man who has taken the lead in the conversation: itself an attractive trait. On a deeper level, you can demonstrate an understanding of women and what they want and need, so avoiding looking like all the other guys.
Through your own personal interpretations of her answers you can also reveal your own personality to her.
Build a connection
The Cube’s most powerful trait is that it allows you to build a connection with a woman and creates rapport. A woman who shares her answers with you is revealing personal issues to you and as you learn about her she will see that you understand her: making her trust you.
Sharing this vulnerability with her will create an important bond.
Qualify her
Women will be worried about giving you the ‘right’ answers as she feels you are scrutinizing her responses. This conveys that you are a man with high standards and expectations and that you have options- you can choose to approve of her answers or not- so, you can choose to approve of her… or not. In the process, you will get the chance to discover what there is to like about her by eliciting what’s important to her.
Leave her wanting more
Once a woman experiences the Cube, she will associate the feelings evoked when answering with you. Leaving her wanting more.
1. Make a good first impression
Most guys stand around the bar looking bored and blatantly checking out the women. You should look like you are having fun, start conversations with people around the venue. That way when you start talking to the girl she’ll be more open to talking to you.
2. Don't delay
Other guys will be checking out the women and stalking out the venue for ages before they pluck up the courage to approach. You need to obey the 3-second rule. You have 3 seconds from the time you spot a girl you want to talk to before you go in there. It seems more spontaneous and makes you seem more friendly and confident.
3. Respect her personal space until she is comfortable
I always see guys get right in a woman’s face when they approach to chat her up. This immediately puts pressure on her and is why you often see guys get bad reactions. Approach more casually, from the side, and she’ll be much more comfortable talking to you.
4. Keep the spotlight on you until she is comfortable
Asking question after question is not a great tactic, but that is exactly what men do in a pickup situation. Do most of the talking until they are comfortable with you. If they give you some information about themselves, talk about that and connect on it before asking another question.
5. Dress for Success
Don't dress generically. What does that mean? If a girl couldn’t compliment an article of your clothing even if she wanted to, it means you are generic. Try to look like "someone who gets laid"! Look around, find people that look like this, and get some ideas.
6. Win the friends over
How often have I seen guys go straight up to the hot girl in a group and ignore all the others. It rarely works. Don't ignore the friends, at least pay them some attention so they don't drag your girl away.
7. Go for comfort over Seduction to begin with.
Don't give a compliment or show sexual attraction right at the beginning unless you can tell she fancies you. This puts pressure on the interaction. Keep things more light and fun until she gets used to you being around then you can smoothly turn things sexual.
8. Get the number when it’s solid
How many times have you gotten a number that doesn’t turn into a date? Don't ask for a number until you have a connection and a reason for meeting up - a shared interest, or a date - arranged. Follow this rule and flaking (ignoring your calls) is minimized.
9. Be cool!
Don’t be desperate, girls can smell it a mile off. Don't look like you are out on the pull. Look like the "fun sociable guy". Have lots of interactions with people and when you have one with a hot girl, getting her number will be natural.
10. Stand out
Don't ask the same boring questions – “what do you do?”, “where are you from?”, it is the conversation they have with their hairdresser and you cannot get a deep connection that way. Challenging questions that bring out emotions, memories, dreams, and passions are the way to go.
Forever Yours
So Mr. Player, who bangs the prettiest, sexiest, loveliest chicks around (holla), now wants to find "THE ONE", the one sexy-ass chick that stimulates your mind, the one seductive temptress that challenges you, the one chick that keeps you on point and checks you when she needs to. No doubt, you want to settle down with her, now that you have already conquered, and have proved to yourself, you can bang, seduce and have most of the chicks you desire.
What Women Want
Before you go looking for her though, you need to educate yourself as to what women want. Contrary to what some might think, or even the impression some women give, women do not want a kiss-ass guy who is going to take her every-where and buy her everything to please her. She sees through that. That is why, women on a certain financial level, gets completely frustrated with most men, who want to win their love by showering them with expensive gifts.
She wants a guy that understands her, a guy that is, of course, not a jelly-back supplicate, who is not going to walk behind her, so to speak, or literally for that matter. A man who can look into her eyes and tell her, NO!
Have you ever seen a couple where the woman runs, the house, tells him what to wear, makes all the decisions, and bosses him around? I'm sure you have!
But guess what, that woman will leave this supplicating, jelly-back loser to go bang a guy that has a spine going down his back.
You see, there is a method to relationships, and just because you now want to settle down and bang this "one" hot chick, for the rest of your life (don't know why you would want to do that but), that doesn’t mean that the game is now over!
It only mean that now you have to play a different game. What game is that? The game of keeping her your bitch, as long as you desire. That’s the game you want to play. Don't sleep on this cause that bitch will leave your sorry ass so fast, you wont know what hit your dumb behind.
And don't be like some women, who, as soon ass they get their man, they do every fucking thing you can think of that’s wrong. You say, what do they do?
1. They stop cooking and treating you like the king you are, as before.
2. They eat all they can eat so as to get FAT, because they are so comfortable.
3. They decide they're not going to dress sexy for you anymore.
4. They use sex as a weapon. Hopefully you know how to use the dick as leverage.
Study how women/men screw up long term relationships. Learn from it!
Give Her Hearts Desire
So how do you give her everything her heart desires without seeming like a kiss-ass pacifier? You put conditions on anything that’s important to her. What do I mean? Everything she wants you to buy her, everything she wants you to do for her, when she desires a nice vacation and want you to foot the bill, when she wants you to go with her to the big company luncheon.
For example:
Her: "Baby can you cook dinner today, I’m going to be late coming back from the mall. My friend didn't even show up yet."
You: "Sure, no problem baby. I can do it, but on one condition."
Her: "What’s the condition?"
You: "That you do this or that / give me this or that, whatever you want!"
Her: "Ok, fine."
See how easy that was guys. Because we all have needs so she’s always going to want something. Use that as leverage to your advantage. Your relationship will be so much better, when you learn how to be a good negotiator.
Relationship Game
If you want to keep her for life, put your sweet sexy thing on a never ending cycle of affection, without being repetitious. In the next few paragraphs, I’m going to show you, step by step, how to do that. And by the way, that is also another way to get everything you want.
First thing you want to do is to make a schedule. Yes. I said, make a schedule, because every 1 month, every 3 months, every 6 months and every 1 year anniversary, you're going to do something unusual and special for her. Now you don’t want to be predictable, so you have to be creative with your schedule. And whatever you do, don't tell her your plans or how and why you do these things.
Every month you're going to send her a card, just to say, hey baby....(whatever). You can make it interesting and send her a card every week sometimes. Then switch back to once-a-month.
Every three months, take her for dinner at a VERY romantic, or high class restaurant. And again you want to change up the dates so she won't tie you to a pattern. Remember, women pay a lot more attention to dates and details.
Every 6 or seven months, Wisk her away on a mini 3 day weekend get-away. Easy to do guys. All you have to do is to find a travel agent who is willing to work with you (and which travel agent is going to turn that down). Tell them to send you the deals, coming up, and even book it for you. The good thing about using a travel agent is you sometimes have the option of booking the trip and paying for it later. Plan ahead, and take one Friday off from your job, and its done! She will be ecstatic, and delightfully pleased with you for being a great, and may I add, spontaneous guy.
Every 1 year, you need to make it a priority to go some place worth remembering.
Repeat the cycle every year for a great , everlasting union and a happy trophy girl, provided you both do all the other little things right. Let the game begin!
The Boyfriend Destroyer: One technique to use is a "boyfriend destroyer". A boyfriend destroyer is especially effective if her boyfriend is not meeting her core values and she's looking to leave him anyway and just needs an extra nudge out.
Here is the technique step by step. First you want to ask her about her boyfriend. She most likely will find this strange, however, you want to use the conversation to extract as much needed information as possible about him, and about the relationship. Things, like how often does he take her out, does he say he loves her, how does she REALLY feel about him (she will only tell you this if you’re in rapport), is there anything she really want that it would be nice if he would do or give to her, etc.
Now if she start talking bad about him, be careful not to join in, but try to be understanding, saying "yes I know what you mean", "yes some guys are like" that and the like. If you're up to it you can even use a bit of reverse psychology and say something like "He probably didn’t know", "He might love you still" etc. That will get her to be more persistent, and even get her in the mood of wanting to prove to you how bad this guy is.
The second thing you want to do after extracting this information about what she doesn’t want, you must now learn her values, get to know the things she really want, the things she really desires, the things she dreams of, what’s important to her, find out how she was as a little girl, and all the fairy tale "pie in the sky" BS that women talk about. Make her dream in her minds eye by reflecting on all the things she wanted to be as a little girl. Then when she comes back down to reality, YOU will be the one there to fulfill those dreams :)
Reframing: To conquer her mind, you will have to refrain her. Its a lot easier to now talk together about the perfect guy, using her trance words elicited earlier, to plug your sentences, all the while using all the techniques such as Kino, mirroring, eye-accessing cues, humor, patterns. For instance, last month I met a cute black-haired beauty by the pool and she was t
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Added on: 09/27/07 21:36
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