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Anika Mae
I'm well aware that I'm not alone. I see a lot of people who haven't come as far as me and ressure them that they're in good company too. I am confident these days, and it's a nice thought when I remember how I'd react to thing three years ago. Reprograming your psyche and social reflexes isn't a quick process, though. I don't refrain from saying things because I'm afraid, but because it doesn't occur to me at the time. Posted on: 02/23/06 05:04
Neil Ashford
When I read your blog this morning I couldn't help feel a twinge of pain and sadness for you. You know Anika there are probably more people than you think that have some kind of social impediment. I say this not to devalue your feelings but perhaps to give you a little bouyancy when you think on this. It all boils down to your own self confidence. I believe that a woman's self confidence is a strong indicator of her sex appeal. The more self confidence the more sex appeal. Sex appeal is not found only in the way a woman dresses but probably more in her personality - the twinkle in her eye, the glimmer of a cheeky grin, the cocking of an eyebrow. Sometimes these actions speak louder and more than words. Having said that 'small talk' is perhaps the elixir of verbal foreplay and most certainly has its place in any relationship. It is important that you face this fear that you have, and which you have done very courageously, and just say those spontaneous thoughts as they come into your mind. You will find that these are always received sincerely because they have come naturally. I hope this helps you. All the best Posted on: 02/23/06 02:31

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