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By amber_wyld
Article Category: Hobbyists Guide
Added on: 05/26/08 15:54
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Men who know how to eat a pussy with style are a rare breed, but thankfully dedicated guys can master the fine art of dining at the Y. I really believe that every man has it in him to go down like a pro if they really wish to or listen to some sound advise from a girl who loves to have her pussy feasted on . Here's my point of view on how to guys:
First things first: Forget everything you that you may have learned from watching some porn movies, because it just doesn't work that way in the real world. Guys who get all their techniques from porn, and go after clits like a owl after a mouse, are not going to eat great pussy. It’s not just some snatch and grab moment here, its tender and sensual. Also, forget all those tried-and-tested techniques of urban legends -- such as working your way through the alphabet with your tongue hoping she'll come before you reach Z. If you work to a formula, it will be so obvious and you'll have your girl yawning rather than moaning with pleasure at your tongue's licking and probing.
Secondly: Get her stimulated before going down by kissing and caressing the rest of her body before going between her thighs. When you finally get your tongue to her wet, sweet spot, go slow! Start off tentatively, and if you're not sure what to do, let her move herself against your tongue and take the lead. Having a firm, still, flat tongue and letting her press against it can be really effective and drive her over the edge. Touch the rest of her as you lap at her pussy; stroke her breasts, her ass, whatever you can reach. Ask her what she likes. Every woman is different, so while some might like it rough, for others, a nice soft gentle start-up will pave the road to a killer orgasm. Remember that the tongue is not a mini cock guys. So focus on stimulation rather than penetration and realize that all of the nerve endings that contribute to her orgasm are right there, situated in the surface of the vulva. Try humming or gently blowing on her clit to send those nerve endings into a wild frenzy.
The majority of complaints from us women are about men who think they know what they are doing but really don't and are way too rough; or men who seem to go down less than enthusiastically and women get the feeling that they're impatient or they're not really enjoying it and just going through the motions. The other side of the coin is that some men may feel pressured and can develop a kind of performance anxiety, which puts them off from actually trying to get a girl off with their tongues. These men are usually way too shy to ask a woman how she likes it, which is a shame because plenty of girls know exactly how they like to be licked and sucked and would happily offer some directions. These men become so anxious that they avoid the act all together.
There's a lot of pleasure in being able to bestow mind-blowing orgasms, and a happy lady friend, girlfriend or wife, (or in my case, an escort) is much more likely to return the favour with true dedication, and most likely, suck your cock the way you like it . So don't just save it for her birthday or some other special occasion, thinking that your giving her some BIG treat. Because your NOT Santa Claus, so STOP trying to make a GIFT of it. So come on guys, make oral action a BIG part of your regular sex life to really gain the benefits of mutual satisfaction.
Hopfully this will improve your dinning out at the Y and have you wanting more or have her so WILD and wanting to give you more.
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