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Added on: 04/16/08 00:11
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Remember the food scene from the movie 9 1/2 Weeks? If you liked that why not script your own food play with a favorite friend or play partner? If planned properly, this also works well as a party game.
Imagine being blindfolded and being fed chocolate, strawberries, and whipped cream! Most people would probably get off on sensual "domination" of this sort. You can also offer shot glasses of unexpected or exotic drinks, like lemonade, horchata, or soy milk. But maybe you're the kinkier sort? How about playing with spicy foods, like hot peppers, tabasco sauce, or wasabi sauce? In any case, don't forget to throw in some fairly neutral items to keep the person guessing -- things like raw mushrooms, peeled grapes, or jicama come to mind.
While each individual item offered should be a surprise, you don't want to really surprise your friend with something they either really hate or worse, are allergic to. You have to be careful with nuts, for example, because some people can have a serious allergic reaction to them, which can precipitate a medical emergency. It's also wise to think ahead about using intoxicating drinks on an unsuspecting or underage person.
One of the best ways to safely plan such a play scene, and to keep it consensual, is to prepare a sheet of options for each person who is to be the subject of your food play. One section should list possible foods, giving the person a chance to rate each one on a scale of 1 to 5, for example. A large selection of possible choices should be offered; not only does this provide for greater flexibility, but will make the game much more interesting, as the person wil not be able to guess what's coming next. Next, there should be a favorite food section, where the subject can write in three to five delicacies. Finally, a place to list food items that cause an allergic reaction or are thoroughly detested must be provided.
So, under possible foods, you can list items under the following categories: fruits (melon, berries, tomatos, etc.), vegetables (cucumber, potato, jicama, etc.), sweets (chocolate, jelly, honey, etc.), beverages (tea, carrot juice, horchata, etc.), dairy products (whipped cream, cheese, etc.), and other items (nuts, mushrooms, marshmallows, etc.).
If you have a prospective play partner fill out a form somewhat in advance of the play date, they will (hopefully) be less likely to remember all the possibilities that they consented to. If significant time has passed, however, it would be best to ask if they have any new allergies since they filled out the form.
When play time arrives, seat your partner in a chair and blindfold them. Kinkier sorts may allow or desire being tied up, too. Before beginning the feeding ritual, you should provide a container so that they can spit out something that doesn't agree with them, and also have a glass or two of water (or milk for spicy stuff), so they can rinse out their mouth. Think about supplying a bib to catch bits that miss the mouth. You can increase the anticipation and excitement by whispering little "taunts" or "threats" to your subject between food offerings.
Keep it consensual, don't scare a timid newbie, but don't hesitate to push the envelope with an adventurous partner.
About the author:
Daka1 is a fan of fetish, fantasy, and consensual BDSM. An equal-opportunity kinkster, he is happy on both the giving and receiving ends of kinky play.
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