Article Category: Sex Advice
Added on: 11/07/07 22:19
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Active, different sex life
Many people meet their special one at a certain time and as many people do will make the step to get seriously involved. One day, the question pops up and they get married. If not married at least stay together for longer term. A relationship we all know grows the more time we spend together. We start to know each other and with time, become stronger connected to the other person.
As much as this helps to stay together it also in many cases destroys the sex life. First, people have sex daily, - maybe even several times a day. After a while it all is gone and what remains is a very boring sex life in where sex plays a role only on very occasional cases.
The couple then either breaks up or falls into a monotonous life. Bth get frustrated, both remember of the passed. Exit to this fatal mind and life status is often taken by a shopping "mania" or any other possible compensation to over come the frustration. One might feel not wanted while the other is feeling not excited, thrilled etc.
The truth is, sex is important. At any time of our life.
In the biological way we have a simple answer to that. Mother nature gives to one of the 2 partners a stronger sex drive. That one will go on trying to produce on specie. The other of the two will remain "home" and take care of the newly born. A simple way but works perfectly, - until the intellect mixes all up...
As a human we control and our society has taught us to do differently. The above mentioned situation develops and we are frustrated and bored. No active sex life is the result.
It however could be very different. Talk to each other. Try new things out. Play together. Anything, Any fantasy is ok! Apen up, Forget your education in where people taught not to talk about sex or any other reason for not talking with the other person. Sex is fun, and anything is ok to do. Nothing is dirty but fun.
Any fantasy one has is possible to try. There is nothing wrong with a fantasy and it is not an issue of being weird, sick or having no "respect" for the other person. Such words, thoughts simply kill the sex drive. Fantasies are to be lived out, tried and played with.
Talking, explaining and opening up gives room to explore new dimensions of our sex life and in our relationship. As long as one does not get mentally or physically "raped" nothing is wrong but actually will give a new dimension, - possibly that new spark to a new active sex life.
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